9000 WordPress Followers!

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Lifesfinewhine just reached 9000 WordPress followers which is so amazing and so exciting!

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Thank you all so much for supporting my tiny piece of the Internet and I am so happy that so many of you take the the time to read, like, share and comment on my posts!

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Writing has always been a way for me to express myself and when I found blogging I finally found the perfect platform to express myself on. Thank you so much for being so supportive. I feel like WordPress is a community and we are one huge family which is such an awesome feeling!

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As you guys know my goal this year is 10K and it’s so exciting to be so close to it!

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I also want to remind everyone especially my new followers that I have a page where you can share and promote your blog on lifesfinewhine. It’s a great place to find new blogs to check out as well as share your own blog! You can check out the page by clicking here.

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Again I just want to thank everyone for all the support you have shown this blog and if you are a new follower welcome and I hope you continue supporting lifesfinewhine!

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Top 5!

So a while back I told you guys about a competition I entered in which if I won I would get a free two nights stay at One King West Hotel in Toronto. I had just become one of the finalists and needed votes to win. Well I thought I would give you guys a little update and let you know that I am officially in the Top 5! It’s super exciting and I couldn’t have done it without you guys. Thank you so much for all your votes I really appreciate it!

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The voting is still ongoing and I would really appreciate it if you voted for me if you haven’t already. You can vote by clicking here. All you have to do is fill in your name and email address and there’s a little gift for you as well if you vote!

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What A National Tragedy Can Teach Us About The Power Of Choice (Guest Post)

By Tiffany Wright

Last April marked the 20th anniversary for the Columbine High School massacre in Colorado. I know,
I’m a bit late when I mention Columbine. However, after feeding my morbid curiosity by researching
the lives behind the two school shooters – and their motives – I came to believe we can all learn a lesson
about the power of choice.

One of the shooters, Eric Harris, started a journal one year before the massacre. I found some
excerpts here from Eric’s now-defunct blog where he rants about everything that irks him. If I didn’t
know who wrote them, I would’ve passed it for the absurd tirades of a typical hormonal teenager.

His accomplice Dylan Klebold was a more interesting case study. Dylan was less focused on hatred
and more focused on personal problems like depression and suicidal tendencies. It was depression that
fueled much of his homicidal intent.

Both Harris and Klebold had been formulating their plans for a full year.

Both recorded themselves talking about how much they hated the world and wanted to destroy it.

Both of their plans originally involved detonating hand-made bombs in the school cafeteria. The
bombs would’ve wiped out over 600 people. The two boys would’ve then gunned down fleeing
survivors. By the time the reporters and police crew would arrive, the remaining bombs from the boys’
van would wipe them out. Slate sums up their motive perfectly: “they were gunning for devastating
infamy on the historical scale of an Attila the Hun.” 2 As it was, the bombs were too shoddily built to
work, so instead they stormed the school building and shot 13 people before taking their own lives.

Can you imagine harboring so much hatred that you want to destroy hundreds of people?

Yet, a contempt for our imperfect world is what perpetrates such motives and deepens the cycle of
injustice. Jordan Peterson, a clinical psychologist and author of “12 Rules for Life,” says in his book,
“People who think such things…appoint themselves supreme adjudicators of reality and find it wanting.
They are the ultimate critics”. 3 Harris and Klebold justified their negative feelings by taking revenge on a
cruel world. Both chose to act on their anger. This should remind us that we, too, have a choice on
whether we act on our negative feelings or not.

Here is one example where I struggled in choosing to let go of my anger. I was once debating a
certain hot-button topic with one particularly confrontational friend, I was on the receiving end of
mockery, shame and rudeness because of my opinions. It hurt, and I wanted to bite back.

Another example is my experience with social media. I witnessed a mob mentality against a position
that I strongly believed in. I saw so many cruel comments like,

“I hope your children die.”

“I hope you die.”

“People who believe X are f-ing retarded.”

Again, it hurt, and I wanted to bite back. And, as a sort of unhealthy defense-mechanism, I started to
think in the exact same hateful manner. The very same words that the mob spewed circulated in my
head.

“I hope they die.”

“I hope they never have children.”

“People who believe Y are f-ing retarded.”

“I hate them.”

“I hate them.”

“I HATE THEM.”

Then I realized that my thought process mimicked the “I hate everything” rant in Eric Harris’s journal,
and I immediately took a step back. I didn’t want to be embroiled in hatred. It was a miserable place. It’s
just that the urge to “bite” back was so overwhelming that I didn’t know what to do with those feelings.
So I considered: 13 innocent victims died because two angry people lashed out. Am I any better than
them if I lash out at those whom I believe wronged me?

In the end, I cut my confrontational friend out of my life, and I haven’t looked back. I cut most social
media out of my life too, and now whenever I’m bored, instead of getting fired up over a smug Reddit
post, I watch wholesome Japanese dramas to brighten my day.

Let the proles spew their hatred. I choose not to fall into the same emotional traps as they did. I
choose to raise myself higher than the haters, for the sake of my emotional health and betterment.

We can choose not to fall into a similar line of thinking as Harris and Klebold. Choose something
better. Choose to move on from hate. Think about Harris and Klebold next time you want to say or think something hurtful about someone. Think about them before you press that “reply” button on a heated
social media thread. You never know whether a simple act of hate can spiral into something you will
regret doing.

I understand. We’re primed to have emotional reactions when the world treats us unfairly or when
someone insults us. I understand, and it can be a struggle not to “bite” back. This is why, before I part, I
will leave a powerful quote for you to reflect on:

“You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True
power is sitting back and observing everything with logic. If words control you that means that everyone
else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass.” ~ Bruce Lee

Here are some more inspirational quotes that I have composed:

“It’s not your successes that defined you, but the bravery to pick yourself up and try one more time.”

“You haven’t failed enough until you actually succeeded.”

“Life wasn’t made to overcome you. You were made to overcome life.”

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Works cited:

1. CNN, Cable News Network,
http://www.cnn.com/SPECIALS/2000/columbine.cd/Pages/SUSPECTS_TEXT.htm.
2. Cullen, Dave, and Dave Cullen. “At Last We Know Why the Columbine Killers Did It.” Slate
Magazine, Slate, 20 Apr. 2004, slate.com/news-and-politics/2004/04/at-last-we-know-why-the-
columbine-killers-did-it.html.

3. Peterson, Jordan B. 12 Rules for Life. Penguin Books Ltd., 2019.

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Blogger Recognition Award

Thank you so much to tatterhood for this nomination! She is an awesome writer with multiple posts on so many interesting topics including books, music and lifestyle posts!

The Rules:
  • Thank the nominator, and publish a post on your blog about receiving the Blogger Recognition Award.  Make sure to provide a link to the nominator’s blog in your post.
  • Give a brief story of how your blog started.
  • Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.
  • Nominate 10-15 other bloggers for this award, and inform them of their nomination.
How I Started Blogging

Well I had always loved writing and new that I wanted to write and one of my friends started a blog so I thought I would too because that would be the perfect way to start out and get better at writing as well as build an audience for my work.

Advice For New Bloggers
  1. Don’t give up- I know it’s slow when you start out and it’s hard to get views/likes/follows but if you put effort into it and keep posting regularly and stay active it will be worth it and your blog will grow.
  2. I’ve noticed a lot of bloggers these days, especially new ones, leave their links on the comments sections of other peoples posts- trust me you don’t want to do this. It’s super annoying and instead of giving you more traffic people are going to get pissed off and avoid you on purpose. Instead look for blogs that have a share and promote page and leave your link there.

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Nominations

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Sunshine Blogger Award

A huge thank you to hmaxwell from theseinfeldeffect for the nomination. She has an awesome blog namebecause Seinfeld rules and if that doesn’t make you want to check out her blog she is also an amazing writer as well as an incredible poet and a veteran so do go over and check out theseinfeldeffect!

The Rules:

Thank the blogger who nominated you.

Answer the 11 questions the blogger asked you.

Nominate new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.

List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award in your post/or on your blog.

Notify the nominees about it by commenting on one of their blog posts.

Questions

Who is your favorite actor?

Well there are a couple- Harrison Ford, Colin Firth and Benedict Cumberbatch.

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Why do you write?

Because I love writing and it gives me an outlet to express myself which is something I’m not great at.

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Would you like to be rich and famous?

Lol who wouldn’t?

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Do you believe that politics are good for the country?

I think it depends on what type of politics and what country. I think we need some for of politics to keep a country running but the problems arise when politicians go back on their word and don’t do what’s best for the nation but rather what’s best for themselves or the few.

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Do you believe we believe everything you say?

Lol I hope not that would be crazy!

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What is better, the idea or the actual thing?

The idea is always better until you find the actual thing.

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What is your favorite song?

Imagine by John Lennon.

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Do you prefer today or yesteryear and why?

Today because you get to make new memories!

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Is there more hate, violence, or have we always been like this?

As a history major I definitely think we’ve always been like this. There has always been hate and violence but I think now with technology we just see more of it out there than we used to before. Now we have the ability to record it and put it out there for a huge audience which I think is why we are now so much more aware of the hate and violence that exists.

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Do you write everyday?

I try to write everyday except Sundays which is when I take a break from everything.

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What inspires you to write?

My biggest inspiration is my followers and the amazing amount of support I get from them. It keeps me posting every day.

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My Nominees

Anyone who wants to do this award should feel free to and please use the same question I was given.

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5 Super Cute And Super Easy Hairstyles

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What I’m Learning… (Guest Post)

So this post is a part of the collaboration I did and it would be awesome if you check out the post I did for Linda’s blog by clicking here.

The blog I started in December of last year was about Social Media Marketing.  At that time I didn’t know what a huge subject that would turn out to be.  There are so many platforms for Social Media.  I had never know that most of them existed.  As a result my focus had to be narrowed down. So, I thought it was best to stick with the main ones I used and understood.  And I added Instagram.

Well, as many of you know,  That can even be a big undertaking.  And in the middle of this, I started another business.  My first business was why I started wanting to learn about e-commerce.

This has all helped to narrow down the information so I could decide on the most important things.  My second blog was about my first business.  But my heart wasn’t into it as much as I hoped.  And that was a surprise.

My current blog is about my Shopify business and the things I’m learning about e-commerce.  Here is the link https://lindaraesramblings.com/ .

Thank you “lifesfinewine” for allowing me to share this post with your wonderful readers and I look forward to what you will share.

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Something Exciting Is Happening!!

Okay so do you guys remember my trip to Toronto? Well we stayed at One King West Hotel and I recently found out that they have this contest where you can win a two nights stay there with breakfast included if you win the competition so obviously I entered. Yesterday I received an email saying that I was a finalist!

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So this is the part where you guys come in! I need the most votes to win and I need you guys to do me a solid and go vote for my picture by clicking here. There is also a little gift for everyone that votes!

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Please vote for me if you can all you need is your name and email address. Thank you so much and I really appreciate it. Click here to vote.

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I really hope I win so I can take lots of pictures and videos to share with you guys.

To vote and receive your gift click here.

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The Blogger Recognition Award

Thank you so much to Sierra over at allmywoes for this nomination! Be sure to check out her blog as well because her content is amazing and inspiring and I’m sure you guys will love it!

AWARD RULES:

  • Thank the nominator, and publish a post on your blog about receiving the Blogger Recognition Award. Make sure to provide a link to the nominator’s blog in your post.
  • Give a brief story of how your blog started.
  • Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.
  • Nominate 10-15 other bloggers for this award, and inform them of their nomination.

How I Got Started

Well I had always loved writing and new that I wanted to write and one of my friends started a blog so I thought I would too because that would be the perfect way to start out and get better at writing as well as build an audience for my work.

Two Pieces Of Advice For New Bloggers

  1. Don’t give up- I know it’s slow when you start out and it’s hard to get views/likes/follows but if you put effort into it and keep posting regularly and stay active it will be worth it and your blog will grow.
  2. Be active- I literally say this all the time but I’ll say it once more- WordPress is a two way street. You have to be active on other peoples blogs for them to be active on yours. You can’t just expect people to like/follow/share/comment when you’re not doing the same.

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My Nominees

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4 Things You Need To Have The Perfect Blog Post

Topic- Your topic is one of the most important things about your blog post. It doesn’t matter how much of an amazing writer you are if your topic isn’t something people want to read about. If you are looking to increase followers and traffic I would suggest looking into what topics are the most popular and writing on those. Not to say other topics aren’t great if you can pull it off feel free to write about unique topics. However, statistically already popular topics are much more likely to get you more traffic and followers.

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Title- The title will decide whether or not someone will click on your post so make sure the title is catchy and will make the reader click. How-To’s and lists are usually very popular. However, don’t lie in your title because click baits are annoying and will probably make people unfollow you.

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Introduction- The introduction is also very important because a lot of people don’t read past it if it’s not interesting enough. Make sure it precise and well edited so there are no spelling or grammar mistakes because this can be a huge turn off to readers.

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Conclusion- A lot of people seem to skip this but I think including a conclusion is a really great way to summarize your post and let the reader know what your concluding arguments/thoughts.opinions are. Plus if you have a great conclusion you are much more likely to get likes/follows.

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