You can’t love for both (Guest Post)

Love is blind, as old proverb said. As much this sounds banal, it has sense. How many time you regret because this fatal hunk did not noticed you? How many times you were envious to lucky girl who got him? Rivalry is old as human species ,but it always has conflict with right on choice. Really, you might be Victoria secret model, winner of Nobel price or Paris Hilton, but if you are not in his heart, you just lose your time and act like masochist who is chasing impossible target. If you talk with your friends in coffee table about this topic, you will just find out simple truth : it takes two for love relation, and you can’t love for both if he has lack of feelings for you.

It is hard to understand this from your side, because heart speaks own truth, and maybe you got some signs that he indeed want you, but be careful, are those signs real or fake? Woman in love can’t see, for which area is she indeed chosen, for sex or relation? Men might fool women with lies as „you are perfect for me, rare diamond, not as other women“, but after hot night this diamond will stay in warehouse, because he only pleased to his wishes. Some women gain hope that this is only first stage, so they will even accept offer for sex but as intro in love story which will never happen.

Lydia fall in love in her neighbor Ted but he was narcissist. He never noticed her even she was pretty, smart and educated. She lost this game even Ted was dating with any kind of women, he was not so picky, he just wanted to increase number of women in his bed. Lydia was quiet because she knew inside of her that even if he asked her for a date, it will not last long. Ted got married with daughter of local entrepreneur.

Cynthia has choice between two guys, her high school sweetheart Ken, and guy from college, Henry. She chose Henry cause he gave her choice, he was not chasing her, even Ken was favorite candidate in her family. Henry gave her bigger freedom.

Rivalry is background for horrible stories, even crimes, because not everyone is able to understand that we can’t force love, and if you got NO answer all you can do is rise from the dust and ask for someone new. You can’t buy right of choice.

The worst you can do is beg or threat to someone who rejected you. You will be marked as desperate lady, maniac or stalker if you don’t give up.  Don’t play games, don’t gossip or try to set up to someone just to bring back your ex boyfriend. This is not solution, because it is not hard to reveal lies, and you will be bad guy in the end of his soap opera.

See some woman’s tricks to catch guy who is not into them:

Follow guy in social networks, create fake profiles just to talk with him.

Association with his friends, just to be in his circle, to dig useful info about him.

Try to get closer with his mom.

If you are business lady, a boss, you might copy Demi Moore in „Disclosure. „

Changing your outfit, in hope that he will notice your long legs or big boobs if you wear transparent shirt. Maybe you will be in his bed, but not in his heart on this way.

Make gossip about your competition. This is double game, cause your fatal potential boyfriend might reveal traps, and also your friend might leave you, cause you are person without ethics.

If you are blindly focused on guy who doesn’t give you single chance, you are in blind alley. This is elimination of every other man in your area, you can’t see them cause your heart is obstacle on this way. You are driver on road to hell, but if you move on right way, you might see road to paradise. Use your right on free choice, without fear that you will stay alone, because this fatal man doesn’t want you. In relation where just one side is in love, love doesn’t exist indeed. So here is no regrets for you, it doesn’t happen really, just in your fantasies.

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Top 5 Movies That Deal With Dementia (Guest Post)

Movies that deal with real suffering of ordinary individuals are usually those that stick in our minds for years to come. Many older actors who have portrayed people affected by Alzheimer’s and dementia have gone on to win Academy Awards or nominations, and will forever be remembered in the history of cinema. The following is a list of some of the best films on memory loss and how it affects everyone involved.

5.   The Savages (2007)

Starring Laura Linney and Philip Seymour Hoffman, The Savages is a touching story about two siblings who reunite for the sake of their father who’s suffering from dementia. This tragic comedy yielded some wonderful performances and nominations, including Laura Linney’s Oscar nomination for Best Actress, and Philip Seymour Hoffman’s Golden Globe nomination for Best Actor in a Motion Picture (Musical or Comedy). Tamara Jenkins was also nominated for an Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay.

  1. Aurora Borealis (2006)

An indie movie released without much anticipation, Aurora Borealis is a story about a grandfather, (Donald Sutherland), who suffers from dementia and needs more care than his wife (Louise Fletcher) can provide. They hire a home health aide (Juliette Lewis) to assist, and enlist the help of their grandson (Joshua Jackson) to provide proper care to Sutherland’s character who believes he can see the Northern Lights through his window. Although Aurora Borealis has never received much praise from critics or moviegoers, it is one of those films where Donald Sutherland steals the show for the millionth time.

  1. Age Old Friends (1989)

John Cooper, played by Hume Cronyn, wonderfully portrays an elderly man who chooses to live in a retirement home to preserve his independence and not be a burden on his daughter, played by his real-life daughter, Tandy Cronyn. He becomes friends with Michael (Vincent Gardenia), who is diagnosed with dementia, and is faced with a tough decision when his daughter wants him to come live with her. Should he leave a rigid retirement home and go live with his daughter or should he stay to help out a friend in need?

  1. Iris: A Memoir of Iris Murdoch (2001)

Iris: A Memoir of Iris Murdoch is based on a book by John Bayley and a true story of English author Iris Murdoch’s battle with Alzheimer’s disease. This film will forever be remembered by its outstanding cast and its breath-taking performances. Jim Broadbent, who plays Bayley in his later years, won an Academy Award and a Golden Globe for Best Supporting Actor. Judi Dench and Kate Winslet both landed Academy Award and Golden Globe nominations for their portrayals of Murdoch in her older and younger years.

  1. The Notebook (2004)

The Notebook is certainly the most famous of all the movies on this list, and for a good reason. Based on Nicholas Sparks’ bestselling novel of the same title, The Notebook might not have received as much praise from the critics as it did from the audiences around the world, but it will forever be adored as one of the most romantic movies of its generation that break down both young and senior dating and everlasting love that knows no boundaries. Featuring Gena Rowlands and James Garner, The Notebook tells a story of a loving elderly husband of Allie who is trying to rekindle her memories destroyed by Alzheimer’s disease. Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams play the couple when they were younger and their chemistry is out of this world.

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Quotes About Staying Strong!

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The First Time

The first time I saw you

I couldn’t take my eyes off you

Now I can’t bear to look at you

I can’t think of you without crying

I am done with you.

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Book Blogger Test

I was nominated by Ella who has incredible recipes on her blog! She is super awesome so please do check out her blog and give it a follow if you haven’t already!!

Rules:

  1. Thank the person who nominated you and add a link to their blog
  2. Answer the ten questions asked on this post
  3. Nominate at least five people to do it also
  4. Let your nominees know you nominated them

Describe your perfect reading spot.

At home snuggled up in bed!

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Tell us Three book confessions

  • I watched The Hunger Games before reading the books even though I always tell everyone to read the book before watching the movie…
  • I  haven’t read Moby Dick
  • I hated The Catcher In The Rye

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When was the last time you cried during a book?

Yesterday.

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How many books are on your bedside table?

A LOT.

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What’s your favourite snack to eat while you’re reading?

Crisps!

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Name Three books you would recommend to Everyone

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

The Harry Potter series by J. K. Rowling

On The Road by Jack Kerouac

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Show us a picture of your favourite bookcase on a bookshelf

I don’t have a bookshelf… I just have a bunch of cupboards filled with books…

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Describe how much books mean to you in just three words

They mean everything.

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My Nominees:

Jeyran Main

inkgirlandwords

Christina

Kristin

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Signs He’s Falling In Love (Guest Post)

Is your man distant and emotionally unavailable? Well, join the club! Joking aside, the local dating scene is packed with indifferent and frigid guys who simply don’t know how to express emotions. You probably experienced something like this with your own partner in crime, but there’s no need to panic. You have to remain calm and keep your eyes peeled for signs of love that will put your mind at ease. Below you can see the subtle hints that say – I’m in love with you, woman!

He Introduces You To His Closest Friends

A man’s “entourage” is like the extension of his family. Every guy has those couple of buddies that are like brothers to him. If your guy decides to introduce you to his best friends, well, you can stop worrying because he’s madly in love with you. Trust us, this is one of the biggest indicators of pure love and trust. Also, if his friends happen to like you and vice versa, you can start looking for a wedding dress.

Good Or Bad News – He Calls You First

Every single man out there has that special person with whom they share both good and bad news. However, this person doesn’t always have to be their girlfriend. If your partner feels comfortable enough to share the good and bad news with you, before he tells anyone else, you can be sure he loves you. This type of behaviour is a sure sign that he cares about you and that he trusts you more than anyone else.

He Spends Most Of His Free Time With You

Relationships can sometimes be rather demanding. Therefore, most guys out there are spending their free time with their friends or they simply choose to enjoy some much-needed “alone” time. You can’t blame your boyfriend for having the need to isolate himself every once in a while, but if he chooses to spend his precious free time with you, he is completely and utterly in love with you.

He Includes You In His Plans For The Future

Most men are deathly afraid of talking about the future with their significant others. They know that if they start planning ahead, it means things are getting pretty serious. However, if your man is ready to talk about your future together, you can be sure he’s in for a long haul.

He Introduces You With His Family

Men are usually pretty close with their moms and dads, and they don’t bring a lot of girls home to meet the parents. If he decides to introduce you to his beloved family, you have nothing to worry about, he’s mad about you. This is, without a doubt, one of the biggest signs your man is in deeply in love with you. It means he is sure about your relationship and that he wants to keep you in his life for a long time.

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My Visa Update

I just wanted to let you guys know that I’ve got my Visa (yayyyy!!) so I’ll probably be travelling soon! I really can’t wait for this new adventure to begin!

Motivational Quotes

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Sunshine Blogger Award

I would like to thank Janice Collins for nominating me for this awesome award! She is super awesome so please take some time to check out her blog if you haven’t already!!

Rules :

1.) Thank the person who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog.
2.) Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you.
3.) Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
4.) List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.

Questions Given To Me:

What is your favorite song?

Imagine by John Lennon or My Way by Frank Sinatra-although it’s very difficult to pick favourites those are probably it.

Ideal 3-course meal.

Salad, pizza, pasta, fries and ice cream!

What do you prefer? Sweet or Savoury food. 

Definitely savoury!

Your favorite celebrity chef.

Gorden Ramsay because he’s so mean it’s hilarious!

Favorite YouTuber.

Ryan Higa (NigaHiga)

Favorite show you can watch over and over again.

Friends!!

One book you refer to all your friends to read once in their lifetime.

Harry Potter or Pride And Prejudice!

Why you chose your blog name to be your blog name?

Ummm it was weird and I liked it!

If you could go back in time and choose another career what you would choose?

Well I haven’t chosen one yet so… I’m not regretting anything right now…

What is one ultimate advice you would give your kids?

Be yourselves! No matter who tries to change you stay loyal to yourself!

Where would you prefer to live? (Near water, on mountains, in an urban area, countryside, etc.)

Either on mountains or the countryside because I like being in places with very few other people there.

My Nominees:

Anyone interested in doing this!

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Lieblingsmensch

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Du bist meine Lieblingsmensch

Und

Ich bin deine Lieblingsmensch

Aber

Nur in meinen Träumen

This poem was inspired by:

English Translation For The Poem:

You are my favourite person

And

I am your favourite person

But

Only in my dreams

Spanish Version Translated By Crosscountrylifeblog:

Tú eres mi persona favorita
Y
Soy tu persona favorita
Pero
Solo en mis sueños

Sorry for any mistakes in the German version but I’m still learning and not fully fluent yet!

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